Have you ever walked past a girl with the perfect messy ponytail, ballet flats on, a lace trimmed cami and the faintest hint of vanilla perfume, and thought, how does she make everything look so cool?

I mean, she probably has Lana Del Rey’s unreleased songs playing in her headphones, an old hollister hoodie thrown somewhere in her wardrobe and a camera roll full of blurry sunsets, pretty coffee cups and pictures she took because the lighting was way too good to ignore. She watches Sofia Coppola movies like there’s no tomorrow, knows every word to her favourite 2000s songs and somehow manages to make even a walk to the supermarket a scene from a coming of age film.

Maybe you’ve always admired that girl, maybe aspects of her are already within you. Or maybe, you’re ready to romanticise your life and start your own girlblogger chapter.

Either way, you’ve come to the right place. And this is your official girlblogger handbook for mindset, personality, fashion and all of the easily missed details that make your life feel more beautiful.


  • scroll on pinterest any time you’re bored
  • watch sofia coppola movies as often as you can
  • listen to artists like lana del rey and sophie woodhouse
  • write diary entries at morning and in the night
  • match your makeup to your outfits
  • use vanilla scented shower products
  • create and stick to your morning & night routines
  • post relatable and pretty things online
  • always keep lip gloss applied
  • read & post blogs about things you love
  • plan your outfits the night before!

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Although the perfectly pink outfits, nostalgic playlists and aesthetically pleasing bedrooms are cute extras to becoming a girlblogger, it’s not the main part of it. The way you see the world and the little things you choose to notice is what it’s all about. Start to romanticise your daily life, stay authentic to yourself, and find beauty in the ordinary. Whether it’s taking photos and posting things you think are pretty or taking yourself on a solo study date at a local cafe, don’t let life pass you by. Those fleeting moments are way more precious then they may seem, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.

Some very girlblogger personality/mindset traits include:

  • being sentimental over old clothes, photographs and keepsakes
  • having strong personal opinions about perfume, lip gloss, films and playlists
  • being comfortable doing things alone
  • being genuine rather than trying to impress everyone
  • being sweet and polite to everyone, regardless of status
  • being a little mysterious and keeping some things just for yourself
  • appreciating beauty in ordinary moments
  • believing your life should have a soundtrack
  • wearing what makes you feel pretty. even if it’s from ten years ago
  • letting yourself be nostalgic without wishing your life away
  • having hobbies purely because they make you happy
  • romanticising your life instead of waiting for something exciting to happen
  • protecting your peace without feeling the need to explain yourself

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The key to girlblogger fashion is about looking like you didn’t spend hours deciding what you’re going to wear (even though you totally did). Think uggs with literally every outfit, lace camis peeking under henley tops, flared or bootcut jeans, little cardigans, and an old hollister hoodie that you’ve somehow kept for years but it still looks cute. Then follow it all up with some princess curls or a blowout, a mini shoulder bag, a tartan scarf and glossy lips. If you’re struggling to visualise it, some girlblogger fashion icons include: Dove Cameron, Lily Rose Depp, Lana Del Rey, Alison Dilaurentis, Lizzy Grant and Natalie Portman.

  1. Look for any clothes and shoes with lace detailing.
  2. Invest in button or bailey bow uggs
  3. Use shades like light pinks, browns and gloomy greys in your outfits.
  4. Use pinterest to help you plan and style your outfits.
  5. Do your makeup with lots of highlighter, light eyeshadow and lots of mascara.
  6. Start a collection of cute hoodies and babydoll tops!!

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xoxo

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12 Responses

    • hey I found it cause it’s now one of the most recent ones, but where will I find it when newer ones come and it gets older? sorry if it sounds silly 😭

      • it’s not!! to find the older posts click on one of the newer ones and then at the top click on misslilahxo and you can scroll through all her posts, with numbered pages. you can also scroll down to playlist archive, bedroom archive, themed routines and bag profiles and just click on one!! hope this helps! x

  1. omg, i love this so much. besides, i think the fact that everyone is here and reading all of your work makes everyone SO girlblogger coded.
    🪽🧁🎀🦢🪷☁️☕️🍵🩰🤍

  2. thank you this app is so usefull for me. i love like the tuscan 2000s vibe and like the punk version to. and fall is my favorite season so this app is amazing!!!!!! please make so we can write are girl blogg diary in this app and that we can haae are own users and post things and yeah that would be even better!!! xoxo 💋

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